Today’s post is a little off the normal topics, but since many of you are also animal lovers, I hope no one will object.
As of yesterday, it’s been 4 wonderful years since our kitty Punkin entered our life & our hearts. Here are a couple of pictures of my handsome guy….
Punkin when he first came home..
Punkin with Grace not long after we adopted her in 2016. She has always adored him.
Punkin isn’t your average, handsome orange man cat. His vision is either limited or gone in his right eye, & he has feline PTSD. I’ve had traumatized cats & disabled ones, but Punkin is very different than any of the others. And you know something? I love that about him.
Punkin thinks & acts differently than other cats. PTSD does that in humans too, so it’s not a surprise. And, sometimes it can be tough to deal with, like when he has flashbacks. He also gets over the top anxious & panicky sometimes, & is distrustful of most people. Learning about feline PTSD plus having C-PTSD myself have enabled my husband & I to help Punkin manage it. One good part of him having PTSD is we understand each other & can help each other when the symptoms flare up. Plus with his vision problem, Punkin doesn’t have the depth perception healthy cats have. He has to get creative on figuring things out sometimes, & he does very well with it. He’s just different than your average kitty. Thankfully, Grace picked up on his uniqueness immediately after we adopted her. She keeps close to Punkin’s side (as you can see in the picture), helping him calm down when he panics or grounding him during flashbacks. She just instinctively knows what he needs, when he needs it.
Punkin is also very appreciative, loving, snuggly, playful, fun, intelligent & sensitive. He’s an absolutely wonderful kitty.. he simply has a couple of challenges that we have to work with.
Lots of people pass by cats like Punkin. They want to adopt healthy cats who require food, water, a litter box & nothing more. Those cats are wonderful, of course, but so are special needs cats. In fact, many special needs cats are even better pets. They are more appreciative of what their people do for them & loving towards their humans. Plus, because of their unique needs & dependency on their human, it’s easy to form an especially close bond. Caring for someone, be they animal or human, opens that door.
If you’re looking to adopt a cat, please take some time & get to know the shy or skittish ones, the ones with health concerns, the ones who may not have the shiniest or fluffiest coats or who have lived on the streets. Those cats need & deserve loving homes just as much as any other cats. Besides, you may find out you’ve adopted the most wonderful cat you could have asked for, like my Punkin.
Both of your cats are adorable! I love those pictures. My dog Superball was born with a defect that makes his left side not-very-functional, and he’s also kind of dumb, but we love him.
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Thank you! I have more cats than just Punkin & Grace. If you’d like to see their pics, you can go here: http://cynthiabaileyrug.com/Cynthia%27s-Family.php
Aww.. Superball sounds adorable. Special needs pets are awesome. 🙂
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I love all your pets! So sweet! 🙂
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Thank you! 🙂 I think they are too!
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We have a cat (Martok, named for the one-eyed Klingon general on Deep Space Nine) who has one eye, the result of a car accident when he was tiny (we were told at the rescue place). The brightest spirit I have ever met and a wonderful friend. I enjoyed reading your post about your cats and I agree. Love comes in all kinds of packages.
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Martok sounds like a wonderful boy! 🙂 Have you ever read Gwen Cooper’s book about her blind cat, Homer? You might enjoy them. Homer was a special & inspiring guy.
Thank you. Love definitely comes in all kinds of packages!
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Yes, I did read that book and it was so touching. Now that you mention it I would like to re-read it.
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It’s worth rereading! 🙂 There’s a sequel too. It was equally inspiring
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I didn’t know about the sequel. I’m going to order it from my library today. Thank you.
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You’re welcome! Here’s the book…
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Thank you!
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My pleasure! Hope you enjoy the book! I’m guessing you will. 🙂
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That photo of Grace reclining against Punkin is SO CUTE I AM JUST ABOUT JUMPING UP AND DOWN SCREAMIN’ HALLELUJAH!
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
I love your story, too; the two together are giving me a major case of The Warm Fuzzies!
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LOL! So do you like that picture of Grace & Punkin?? It’s hard to tell! LOL! Isn’t it an adorable picture?! I love watching them together. So much cuteness!
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PS: I thoroughly enjoyed the photos of all your animals AND the young C B-R!
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Aww…thank you! ❤
Hard to believe how long ago Granddad took those pictures! Time flies!
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