Filed under Mental Health, Narcissism
Tagged as abuse, door, ghost, ghosting, INFJ, MBTI, narcissism, narcissist, narcissistic, no contact, personality, relationship, slam
Love this Cynthia, thank you! It’s amazing how suddenly people become seen as unreasonable or psycho when in all actuality we are simply standing up for ourselves and setting boundaries. As a very sensitive introvert who has had to eliminate narcissists on more than one occasion, this really rings true. I am looking forward to seeing more from you!
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I know.. they are often very dysfunctional people who think tolerating abuse is good & even Godly. They also haven’t seen what goes on behind the scenes, like us thinking long & hard about setting boundaries or going no contact so it could look like our actions are out of the blue.
Have you ever taken the MBTI personality test? If not, I highly recommend it! It can give you a lot of insight into your personality & help with healing from narcissistic abuse. Here’s a link if you’re interested: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
Thank you for your thoughtful response. I was just thinking last night that I should take a personality test! How did you know? lol
Yes ma’am, the abuses that results of the church and what is Godly is a whole other monster altogether. Thank you for posting empowering content.
I didn’t! LOL Just felt it was a good idea for you for some reason.
It’s another monster indeed.. & a very ugly one at that!
You’re welcome & thank you for your kind words! ❤
Not surprisingly, I am INFJ 😀
LOL I thought so! 🙂
Haha, Indeed, true blue introvert over here.
I always wonder what other Meyers-Briggs types do: Keep going back for MORE crap? “Keep in touch?” “Remain friends?” (GAG!)
I mean, at some point, dontcha just kinda take the hint, already?
Probably depends on the type, I’d think. Some are more prone to see only the good in people while others see only the real. Those who see only the good are going to try harder than those of us who see only the real, yanno? They’ll keep trying well after they shouldn’t. Plus, add in the dysfunction from being abused & some types will stick around thanks to trauma bonding until whenever they see the light. From what I understand about personality types, extroverted types are more likely to tolerate abuse longer than introverted. But, introverted types are more susceptible to abuse.
Gee. I’d never once thought of it from that standpont; DUH!
Thanks for the insight! 🙂
LOL No DUH allowed! You’re fine! I only learned this because some people baffled me to the point of wondering what their problem was. Enough studying taught me a thing or three about how people are, dysfunctional or not.
And you’re welcome.
I’m a INFP but I did “ghost” someone. Because there was a great potential for complete disaster in that relationship so I had to leave. I wish people didn’t judge “ghosting” so hard. Sometimes you don’t have another choice.
I agree totally. Sometimes it really is the best option. Why explain yourself to someone who is committed to misunderstanding you &/or will abuse you further? There is no point in it!
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