My mother has passed away. It looks like her heart, but no autopsy will be performed. She was 80 on the 16th, had heart problems & her cousin said she had complained her chest was hurting.
We’re also not positive when she passed, but likely it was on her birthday or early in the morning after. Reason being, she spoke to her cousin daily. For 3 days after her birthday, this cousin couldn’t reach her. Living out of state, she contacted the local police for a welfare check. They found her dead in her chair.
It’s a terribly sad scenario. Dying alone & remaining that way for some time. But thankfully it most likely happened very quickly & probably she didn’t suffer. That is some positive at least.
I’m also so blessed… after what happened when my father was dying 18 months ago, I dreaded dealing with family. (If you don’t remember, many relatives sent me abusive messages telling me how awful I was for not going to say good bye. It happened daily & sometimes multiple times a day during his final 20 days in the hospital & periodically prior to that for his final few months. Not a nice time!) My cousin volunteered to take care of my father’s side of the family & keep them away from me. My mother’s cousin who called the police notified her side of the family. Thankfully the daunting task of dealing with these people has been taken care of & I’m no worse for wear. 🙂
Apparently, much to my surprise, my mother left this situation in my hands. I’ve never dealt with anything like this & have no idea what I’m doing. I am pretty overwhelmed to say the least. If you’d be kind enough, I’d appreciate some prayers to help me get through this situation. Thank you! xoxo